Karren and I have been participating in a babysitting group for the last little while. We found that is was both very hard and expensive to go on dates, so we got four families together trade off watching kids. This way, we get to go on dates three out of four weeks. We have found that a side benefit has surfaced. Sonya is now friends with all these kids and they know and enjoy each other's company. They are just like cousins!